Hi Hive Lovers
Obviously, there is no difference between a man and a woman. But a man is destined to be different from a woman, and those differences become things that complement each other. Men complete women, and women complete men.
"Feeling makes a man"
The media has greatly influenced and misled us into believing that in order to be called an ideal man in the eyes of women, a man must always seem dashing and mighty and that his tendency is always toward their physique. control of behavior for the purpose of economic gain?
In fact, women and life don't just need a man's physique; they need far more things other than a man's physique. To feel like a man, you really have to pay attention to your body or physique, but you also have to pay attention to your brain and your heart. With the integration of these three elements, a man will deserve to feel like a man.
Every age needs people with an integrated physique, brain, and heart. Yes, at every age, not just in today's society. What distinguishes one era from another is only a way of life because of cultural differences or the level of progress. both the past (before us), now (our time), and someday (after us).
What attributes must be owned by someone to be called a man?
Health
Health is a need for everyone, not only men and women, not young or old, and there is no reason whatsoever to suggest that anyone does not want to be healthy. There are no exceptions.
A man must also always be healthy to live their days well; a man must always be healthy to be responsible for themselves, for other people they care about, and for their lives more broadly.
A man must always lead a healthy lifestyle and take full responsibility for his own health. If a man does not lead a healthy life, then it is questionable whether he should be called a man.
It is true that a man should pay attention to his physique or body. But they can't ignore the intelligence aspect of being called a true man.
Intelligence
As a man, a person must at least have three basic intelligences, namely:
- Intellectual intelligence
A man really must have intellectual intelligence. This intellectual intelligence is related to a person's cognitive ability to solve all of their life's problems.
A man with high intellectual intelligence can easily solve various problems and has a high probability of success in life. - Emotional intelligence
A man must also have emotional intelligence. This intelligence is related to a man's ability to manage their emotions as a social skill in their interactions with other people.
A man with high emotional intelligence can easily solve various social problems that exist in their environment. Those who have high emotional intelligence also have a high chance of success in life. - Spiritual intelligence
A man must also have spiritual intelligence. This intelligence is related to a man's ability to explore the value, meaning, and purpose of his life more broadly and deeply.
A man with high spiritual intelligence can easily solve life's problems by always adhering to the guidelines and principles of life that he believes in, and he is always able to maintain his behavior to find value or meaning and achieve his life goals.
A man who has high spiritual intelligence also has a high chance of success and easily finds peace in his life.
The levels of these three intelligences will vary from person to person, depending on one's background and life orientation.
How should a man think and act?
A man's way of thinking and acting should be the whole process and result of integrating his good health, intellectual intelligence, emotional intelligence, and spiritual intelligence.
The better a man's health and the higher the level of his three intelligences, the more he will achieve all his goals in life and always be happy.
In a healthy body, there is a strong soul. A man who has a healthy body and has all these intelligences is "a modern man, excellent in health and intelligence."
This must also apply equally to women, not only to men, and to all people without discriminating against them. Everyone needs good health and needs intellectual intelligence, emotional intelligence, and spiritual intelligence.
About the photo: He is one of my seniors. I've never found him sick, despite the fact that he has a busy schedule for 7 days straight every week. I don't need to mention his other strengths here.
Thank you for provoking the creativity of everyone who is willing to accept your challenges, Mr. 
Finally, something remains unanswered for those of you who come across this article. How do you feel as a man, and how does everything you feel work for you?