just an observation ha??
i don’t know who needs to hear this but…
not all relationships that survive rubbing along are healthy, and not every relationship that takes a break is on the rocks.
others leave but never learn, and they continue to carry right with them the very wound that keeps reopening. others apologize to avoid an uncomfortable conversation rather than a genuine desire for understanding, hoping that things will feel normal again without any substantive change.
at times, pausing to save the relationship does lesser harm than going through this repeated pattern of pouring love until exhaustion.
because repeated pain doesn’t always break a relationship immediately, sometimes it slowly drains the love that’s still trying to stay.🙂
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