What is the argument they are having and why is it so important for everybody else?
Have you guys considered not reading their posts, if you don't like them ?

I actually read the posts from @lucylin since he started on Steemit like 4 years ago if I remember correct. I always liked them even if sometimes I am not agree with some things but thats normal.

That's the beautiful thing about social media. You can just stay away and without attention those dramas go away. I would have stayed away from this post, if I would have thought that it's about drama.

I hope life would be like that for me and I could avoid drama in life like you say you do. You are very lucky person :) Seriously speaking, I went into this because, as I say before, I follow @lucylin as a user in the HIVE blockchain since long now and I think (even if it doesn look like as someone told me privately) that @regenerette can apport a lot to the Proof of Brain community.

I think your real life matters, as long as you feel the need to put it out there on your own. We want to share our experiences and learn from each other.

I am actually agree with this if you read what I say about people I know and knew who do this. I do it also lot, share personal experiences of course is good!

On the other hand, it shouldn't be used to settle a debate about objective things.
If one side argues reasonably and the other goes for pitypoints, everybody knows, who won that round.

Agree!

In your quote it seems, like she is reasonably explaining, why she doesn't answer somebodies question/attack. That should be fine. We have real lifes. We can be busy or sick.

With just this part you do not have the complete picture (not even a quarter) so ... I think that if you want to make an opinion on this you should at least read the complete comment from her (you will still do not have the complete pic but better than just a few sentences).

We have the power to choose, when we want to engage in a fight. It's legitimate to say, I won't fight,

This I know for personal experience because of the combat sport I practice. I am more than agree but this was not the case.

Imagine I ask you valid questions and instead answering or even saying "I do not answer you because I do not want" that is also valid you start making ad hominen arguments again me, start to say I am attacking you and in the middle of that put this pharagrap about your sickness without any reason. Why should you do that?

My point was more about how this doesnt work on HIVE the way could work on traditional social networks like Facebook.

You can disagree, but I won't promise to engage.

We agree that we can disagree 😁

Pd: my english is horrible atm, sorry for any mistakes I am working and answering you at the same time.