Don't Ever conclude,someone's current situation doesn't define the person.
The way we see people or define people is totally different from how God sees them no one can tell anybody future except God. There was this girl,she was calm and calculated, sometime I just wish I could help her. Life was so unfair to her,Her Dad left when she was two years old she never experience the love and care of having a father. Her mom did all she could to take care of her and they two younger siblings,but no matter how she tried,life was still difficult for them. Her salary could hardly feed them three times a day let alone buying decent clothes and paying for a Good Education.She had to go to one of the local schools with her personality no one ever wanted to sit near to her or be her friend, she was always very lonely.
one day she went to church, after the choir ministered the pastor was set to preach, as the pastor walk to the pulpit, he prayed the topic of the message was "God has the final say" one of the key scripture was 1cor 2:9 that says" Eyes haven't seen and ears haven't heard, it has not enter the heart of men what the Lord has plan to do for his children" right there she felt the message was for her and it ministered to her.
Days turn to weeks, weeks turn to months,month to years and nothing change,no friends, no help everything was still the same. She was used by parents to illustrate to their children someone with no future, until one day fate smiled at her, she meet a pastor that decided to sponsor her through school and help her family with some basic needs.she studied a professional course,made it to the top. After her serivce, she was bless with a job that got her a car and a beautiful house. As years Passed, she was able to provide for her family and even extended the help to the villagers. She built a school, employ standard teachers, name the school after the village and it was totally free. The same person people thought that Her's was over, became a source of light to her generation and those unborn.
never let what anyone says about you negatively make you feel you can not go far in life,i once read a book title Diva principle by Michelle Hammond my favorite line says "you will hear people's opinion but the only one you should listen and treasure is God's opinion about you" you are what God says you are, the head and not the tail, his plans for you are Good and not evil.
