In many "Couples" or Marriage Therapies, I have noticed a constant detail: The presence of diseases of different types.
In fact, when the progressive reconciliation of the "couple" is achieved, improving and consolidating the relationship based on Love, Fidelity and Respect, it has been verified as diseases begin to disappear; and if for any reason this reconciliation is not achieved, the health of one or both falls precipitously, even leading to the death of one of they.
Without having made a strict scientific investigation of the fact, and without reliable statistical data of support to validite the previous statement, thats results are "Philosophical Inferences" or a Hypothesis for the field of Health Science, worthy of being subjected to controlled experimentation for possible confirmation.
However, from my experiences of Marriage Orientation with many "couples" over several years, I have been able to confirm the Philosophical fact, but as I have said previously, without strict reliable proofs.
In the first place, it is a public fact, notorious and from the experience of most of us, who have noticed that in those difficult moments of life in which we have faced the separation of a be loved either for a short or long time or forever by emotional breakdown or in the worst case by the death of the loved one; immediately begins an internal process almost self-destructive, discouragement, despair, negativity, crying, discord, anger, hatred, anxiety, disappointment, disappointment, depression and/or "the world ends", among many other negative things that apparently "we fall or conceive as an unfortunate plague."
Likewise, a series of singular ailments is triggered as a form of somatization of the evils and by the almost automatic diminution of the "defenses" of the organism; and translated in turn with the almost instantaneous appearance of different types of "opportunistic diseases", some of which are of mental origin.
In recent days, I have read several serious scientific publications that deal with the theme of "Evil of Love", and even pharmaceutical companies that offer different medications to alleviate the many evils due to emotional deficiencies or lack of love; but, in Philosophical terms they seem to be simple placebos that are encapsulated with some types of "studied beneficial fruits", contained in colorful jars as a convincing medicine.
Therefore, I believe little in their "real" results, although I can accept that said "Funny Medicines of Love", in most cases can produce positive psychological effects and somatizables, for which I find very advisable options to help people with affective deficiencies or to "cure" relieving the "Evil of Love".
On the other hand, I have to mention a study carried out at the University of California, in which it was discovered that Paracetamol (an anti-inflammatory and analgesic medicine that relieves physical pain), also has a good effect to cure the "Evil of Love", because apparently through its analgesic function also helps to calm the negative feelings that affect a person with "Evil of Love".
In this sense, in this study it was found that strong emotions activate hormones that cause a negative physical effect, somatized as a "disease with emotional or physical pain associated", because the human brain does not distinguish between physical and emotional pain.
Despite the positive results, the researchers do not recommend Paracetamol to alleviate emotional pain, due to the many harmful side effects caused by its excessive use and because clinically it has not been certified as the appropriate treatment for the "Evil of Love" .
In a recent publication that I previously made (https://steemit.com/domingosano/@josevasquez/love-as-a-medicine-el-amor-como-medicamento-english-espanol), I wrote about "THE LOVE AS A MEDICATION", based on the reading of the real experiences of Dr. Bernie Siegel with several "terminal patients" or with a predicted date of death due cancer or AIDS, who managed to survive and heal thanks to Faith and Love.
That is to say, he has been proven that just as he works with the complex diseases that cause death, also for affective deficiencies, the "Evil of Love" and its associated "opportunistic diseases" can be "cured" more efficiently with high doses of LOVE; and that is something very obvious, because the affective lack and the "Evil of Love" is nothing but lack of Love, and only by filling with more LOVE is the "lack" replaced.
1.- If you need to encourage, have happy and healthy your partner, it is best to give a few doses of LOVE daily or at each moment, depending on the need of the case. This can be a nice detail to save the lives of many people and a perfect soul supplement for those people with gray days in which everything seems to go wrong.
2.- Each time you are prescribed and give doses of LOVE, you instinctively say to the person who receives it "I love you and I adore you" with a big smile and a sincere hug of peace, hope, happiness, and concord.
3.- In addition, the doses of LOVE must be accompanied by noble gestures of healthy and true empathy, such as: being respectful, kind, courteous, sincere, honest, faithful, loyal and grateful; combined to smile, surprise with details, delude with sincerity, give and hold real hopes, embrace, kiss, maintain a good and healthy sexual relationship, keep alive the flame of passion and say with words and gestures "I Love You", between other positive aspects that should be cultivated at all times.
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