I'm fully in love with my life right now, it's so peaceful. I remembered when I tried to please everybody I used to say yes to everything now I can say "no, thank you" "naaa, I don't want to go" just like that, lol. And actually I have the title of "cold heart" hahaha and yesterday a person from my work asked me why are you like that? Because was asking me if I noticed something about a girl since I said no. He was like why you are like that? And he told me "so distracted" I just have to corrected him and say: excuse me, I'm not distracted, I just don't care about what other people does or have, I just care about me 🤷🏻‍♀️ so yes, I'm very agree we do not pretend, we just embrace ourselves and we do not waste time or energies in others