Similar to what you wrote, I hesitate to answer when people ask what I do. I feel like a title doesn't match the content of my life.

Yes. Sometimes a title cannot describe, as it's only a phrase or an idea. Sometimes there's a whole lot to cover, and a title cannot do that.

I like your writing style/pattern. Like me, most times I just write and then I do the editing, and then make appropriate adjustments as I finish.