The Source Of The Problem
This is one of the possible guides to your own path!
Why is pain used so many times with me in a lot of those pieces.
A beautiful woman that i know always told me, Pain is when you understand and start healing.
Pain is a part of our lives, but also this can be changed to something (ironically) good, pain is one of the indications that you are alive and still evolving, still growing.
Pain therefore is something good! Yeah, this sounds really weird! But it is part of going towards pleasure in your life instead being stuck on that fear.
But i can die!
So what?
So many people are afraid of death, running away from it, running away for possible pain, because it let’s them connect to death! Pain = Death, while this is not true in all aspects
(yeah, of course I understand a big open wound can be deadly and goes with pain, but this is
not what i am talking about here).
What I am talking about is the mental aspect of death and the fear of it and how it can freeze us in our development!
Death and destruction are the only things certain in our lives, with this thought i understand the end of the road.
Is this a bad thing? Nope
Does this make me depressed? Nope
Does this set me free? Yes
Does this let me enjoy life even more? Yes
Knowing that the end comes closer every single day, does not mean that you should sit still and depressed about it, i mean a life that you keep remembering while switching timelines and you have no power to change it is by far more terrible.
Interesting how death now, seems something more peaceful instead of something to fear!
Now that this is not stopping you anymore, let's make something out of our lives!
Lets run to what we want!
Death and pain are in a way now ruled out. You know that you will be hurt along the way, yet you know and understand that this is needed to help you grow and heal even further.
Sometimes we are faced with forms of reality, that forces us to do certain things and it also forces us to act in a certain way our whole lives.
Or we think that we are forced, i know a great quote from the show ‘suits’ when harvey says:
‘Even with a gun on your head there are still 150 things you can do!’
What does this mean?
It simply means that there are so many ways to respond to even the most dire of situations, but our creativity and our Will towards a better life needs to be behind it instead of seeing as being forced.
Try to see it as an opportunity, a chance to solve a puzzle for yourself, something that you can leave behind!
For the more spiritual people, this is how you solve past karma, thinking with the point of how to progress instead of searching for a tarot reader.
The best part is, all the tests and all the things we get in life, are here because life knows we can handle it and deal with it, as long as we find the right answer. All the bad things can be turn around, but it is up to us and only us.
This is our responsibility and our only responsibility, to make the best life possible for ourselves and to love ourselves.
Loving myself?
Loving yourself is something i have written about many times, so i will not repeat it to much again. Yet this is an topic which needs to be repeated at the same time!
I ask you, do you truly love yourself?
If you go deep enough even with your fears, doubts, shame and pride, do you love yourself?
Not many people will say yes, knowing this will also make you capable of understanding everyone around you and even create a sense of love towards them.
So many people are sharing this pain and you notice with how they reflect to the outer world in harsh language to even horrible actions, just as a reflection of how bad it is and feels on the inside.
Some try to keep an smile or try to have a fake smile, which is only to even build an bigger armor so that nobody finds out.
We are the Source
For all of our problems, in the end we are the Source of it ourselves. How we think and act are mere reflections of what is truly going on inside, it is also one of the reasons why we are so easily manipulated by people that can look through it.
The only way to help not only the world or the people is to help ourselves and with ourselves i mean not being egocentric like a boss, but more reflecting issues with yourself.
It sets yourself free from things also like resentment, you know that everyone around you is human and you as well, this will keep you grounded, but also you start to know and understand why people are acting as they do.
In my personal eyes, all people are good beings in their essence, no matter the corruption behind it, but sometimes they act in the most horrendous ways as a reflection of what is truly going on inside (sometimes also with mental issues).
SHINE!
I understand why you are still so hard for yourself, you need to do this or that or else you will fail people.
Let's turn this around everyone in a way does it, everyone in their own way is way to harsh against themselves, it reflects to their outer world.
Starting to sound familiar doesn’t it?
Start by being nice to yourself (in a healthy manner) start rewarding yourself after a good day of work by exercising or anything that make you feel good in a healthy way.
You are then hitting 2 birds with one stone!
Eventually you start to turn around, also in your personality and you start being able to look through people their outer appearance and start loving and seeing their beauty on the inside.
People see you shine and will attract to you and you are able to not only help people but help them free themselves as well!