So BAM this is a boomer and a difficult thing for discussion or reading up or even in terms of self reflection on how to improve.
Why after a lot of magical stuff, i am now increasingly going towards issues like this?
It has to do with my own work and building up of my company.
And also through my own work of my first book and when i continue my second book and how this will help people out.
To start off though, what is inferiority complex?
An inferiority complex is a lack of self-worth, a doubt and uncertainty about oneself, and feelings of not measuring up to standards. It is often subconscious, and is thought to drive afflicted individuals to overcompensate, resulting either in spectacular achievement or extremely asocial behavior.
In modern literature, the preferred terminology is lack of covert self-esteem. For many, it is developed through a combination of genetic personality characteristics and personal experiences.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Inferiority_complex quote taken from the wiki to give it an easy start.
So this is the factual knowledge behind it.
In a more personal point of view (i used to be in that spot as well), you always look how good people are and compare yourself or you keep missing opportunities, wich makes you feel worse.
You see succes of others and you feel horrible and the worst part is, you are not even jealous or so, you just wished you could just do it as well.
There are ofcourse outside look towards this and more signs, but i will bring this from your own personal experience.
I notice that there are a couple of sources as well that started this, yet at the same time. I know how to fix it and this is what this post is also going to be about.
What one big core issue is with this complex is that you keep watching around you and then think inside of you afterwards in a negative daylight.
If i bring it like this, this really shows a very (and way to) easy view of it, but that is the secret for a lot of issues.
Simplify them to the point that it is able for you to handle it or understand it better and make it more complex, when you have mastered yourself in the simple way. (aka building up the fix for yourself as well)
So the problem is in a strange way positive outside and being negative inside.
Becoming negative towards the outside again as an reflection of what plays on the inside as well.
So there are a couple of easy yet lifechanging and still fixes that needs daily work on (but still worth it):
To give explanation to these 4 points:
Focus on your goal and what you want to achieve and keep studying.
This means that you are busy with instead of always watching others, you start focussing yourself and getting to Know Yourself for who you are and what you can do, step by step.
This is a route that can take a couple of years, but it makes it so much more worth it!
Focus on the others their qualities and think what you can achieve with yours by finding your own qualities.
This is to show that they are as human as you are and that they have strong points and weaknesses and so are you.
This will bring the view of them down and give you an more balanced idea behind them, they all started out somewhere like you and by being smart and keep on working you are able to Go Beyond like they did.
Eventually focus on being proud of what you can do yourself.
In this case a lot of people have gotten somewhere through the help of others, while you keep improving you are doing this on your own strength and you do it by showing skill and quality instead of appearance, looking good (wich you certainly do) is a easy thing, but it is your quality and skills what eventually matters.
And guess what, you are training yourself to create and not to compete! Not to compare, but to overcome your own obstacles!
Become the change you want to be or master the idea and concept you stand for.
This stand that you are knowing yourself so well to the point that you have found the core issues of the complex + that you have accepted it and started to move on. By now your will is so strong that you are able to do even the opposite or find a way to strip yourself temporarily from your ego. This means that you make contact with your essence and you find the idea you stand for and you start working towards it.
This is your ultimate freedom and the ultimate way, after finding this you start mastering it and you do this by finding studies around that Will and find studies wich truly connects to you.
Combining logic and intuition into something bigger.
I know that with this, i give off an very easy idea to save it. But i know that this is one hell of a battle and it keeps coming back, trying to take over your life again.
NEVER GIVE UP!!!
So focus on your growth, then focus on your self love and then you will see the truth behind you!
Also as a magician, i can say i have seen some weird stuff and even if certain things are genetic, i can even say louder. THAT IS NOT A LIMIT, BUT A CHANCE!
