The soul has three clothes: "thought, word and action"
A great wise taught that when a man is suffering about his children, it means it's about problem that there's in the part of the soul about "The thought", and he is punished through his children, measure by measure, because man's decendents are created by the sperm made in the brain…
If he gets sufferings about his wife, it means there's a problem in the part of his soul about his "Words", and he is punished measure by measure, through his wife.
If the man has economic difficulties, it means there's a problem in the part of the soul about his "actions", and he is punished measure by measure, through economic problems, everything for telling him "correct your actions"…
We all have failed, so don't sink in blame feelings. What's really matter is to rectify.
Let's be careful since now about our three clothes, that way we will receive many favors from the Lord…
Shalom… (Peace)