@urielb11 es mi hijo mayor con 14 años luego viene Zeus David de 10 año y Michael de 3 años, por ese motivo me gustaría comentarles acerca de alguna de las cosas más importante que debemos enseñar a nuestros hijos.
Hello dear friends of hive especially the beautiful people of this community #motherhood and #fatherhood this would be my first post here so I would like to introduce myself first my name is Jonathan Bolivar I am from Venezuela married and with three wonderful children one of them is taking his first steps also in hive
1 Values. All of us throughout our lives have heard about values and how important they are for our children. We can mention some of them such as kindness, compassion, understanding, affection, among many others as an important part for their development as a good person, but how can we get them to assimilate them? It is important to maintain the bond of communication as well as to demonstrate by example everything we talk about because it would be absurd to ask them to be loving and kind when we are not and it is even more important to strengthen these values from a very young age so that they feel safe before the situations that life puts them in.
2 Autonomía
Un tema que en lo personal nos costó un poco, la autonomía desde pequeño los ayuda a avanzar mucho más rápido ya que les permite dar sus pasos en la vida sin que necesariamente los papas tengan que estar siempre para decirles que hacer, claro es más fácil hacer las cosas que hacerlas por ellos que enseñarles a cómo hacerlas la enseñanza aunque toma su tiempo deja muchas más recompensas a la hora de que salga al mundo. En mi caso nos costó un poco más con nuestro primer hijo por obviamente al ser el primero fuimos un poco sobre protectores y no le permitíamos realizar ciertas actividades pero bueno eso nos permitió aprender y ya con el segundo las cosas cambiaron.
2 Autonomy A topic that personally cost us a little, autonomy from an early age helps them to advance much faster as it allows them to take their steps in life without necessarily the parents having to be always there to tell them what to do, of course it is easier to do things for them than to teach them how to do them, the teaching although it takes time leaves many more rewards when it comes out into the world. In my case it cost us a little more with our first child because obviously being the first one we were a little over protective and did not allow him to do certain activities but well that allowed us to learn and with the second one things changed.
3 Cuidar su mente.
Wow una parte sumamente importante en estos momentos que vivimos donde ellos por medio de la tecnología tienen acceso a todo tipo de información, por esta razón es importante acompañarlos y asistirlos en sus inicios tecnológicos escuchar siempre sus dudas y preguntas para tratar de aclararlas, es muy impórtate tener tiempo para jugar y divertirnos con ellos, enseñarles sobre la naturaleza y la importancia de los otros seres vivos que la habitan para que entienda la importancia de la vida, y por sobre todo organiza su tiempo enfrente de las pantallas si en la actualidad es algo súper complicado pero es de suma importancia para su pleno desarrollo. Realmente se nos hizo un poco complicado en el inicio de la pandemia pero gracias a que mi esposa le encantan los juegos de mesas poco a poco fuimos equilibrando la balanza jejeje, los regalos de la navidad pasada ayudaron mucho a reforzar este aspecto les regalamos bloques de construcción, patines, memoria que les permiten segur desarrollando su imaginación
3 Take care of their mind. Wow an extremely important part in these times we live in where through technology they have access to all kinds of information, for this reason it is important to accompany them and assist them in their technological beginnings always listen to their doubts and questions to try to clarify them, it is very important to have time to play and have fun with them, teach them about nature and the importance of other living beings that inhabit it to understand the importance of life, and above all organize their time in front of the screens if today is something super complicated but it is extremely important for their full development. It was really a bit complicated at the beginning of the pandemic but thanks to my wife who loves board games, little by little we were balancing the balance hehehehe, the gifts of last Christmas helped a lot to reinforce this aspect we gave them building blocks, skates, memory that allow them to continue developing their imagination.
4 Take care of their body Teach them that it is important to maintain a proper balance in food for excellent development, physical activities provide better growth and mobility, teach them that their body is a temple and therefore must keep it clean and tidy and that they are the sole owner of their body.
Estos son algunos de los aspectos que considero importantes para el buen desarrollo de nuestros hijos tanto a nivel físico, emocional y mental recordemos que ellos siempre aprenden más con el ejemplo que con las palabras.
Amigo espero que estos pequeños consejos les puedan servir en la crianza de sus hijos, si tiene algunos más o pueden complementar estos seria genial leerlos
These are some of the aspects that I consider important for the good development of our children physically, emotionally and mentally, remember that they always learn more by example than by words. Friend I hope these little tips can help you in raising your children, if you have some more or you can complement these it would be great to read them.
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