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That means that you have absolutely zero mental space for any other things from anymore you would always rather spend your time with your kids than deal with some adult insecurities and you naturally become uncompromising when it comes to your relationship with other people they either add some value to your life or they alter your life.
Nothing comes nothing goes for nothing. Nothing happens naturally and nothing really affects your life, you are just free and self confident.