“Your task is not to seek for love,” the poet Rumi said, “but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” As with most things, this task is much easier said

You message your lover on social media, twice. No response. You figure maybe a text message would work better. You text. No reply. You try again a bit later. Nothing. Now you’re concerned. You call. No

It’s often said there is nothing more attractive than confidence. The opposite of confidence is insecurity. There is nothing more unattractive than insecurity. If you spend more time thinking about your

The main reason you want to contact your ex again is to find out why. Why doesn’t your ex want you anymore? What did you do wrong? Why did they have to back away instead of talking about it so it can be

You message your lover on social media, twice. No response. You figure maybe a text message would work better. You text. No reply. You try again a bit later. Nothing. Now you’re concerned. You call. No

Let's say you were raised in the USA. You went to USA schools, maybe a USA church sometimes. You watched USA television shows, and USA news programs possibly. If you research the Council on Foreign relations,

Oh hai--real quick---sit down, Sweetheart. We need talk about something. So you are getting to that age where you're old enough to be told how the world really works. Google is run by an evil gang of oligarchs

The info war is between conspiracy minded individual rights defenders, and the deep state, who are Rockefeller's u. of Chicago (and CFR) neocons, which are secretly neomarxists, despite overtly running

Everyone could always be entirely mistaken. So pretending it's only other people who go through life based upon their assumptions is ludicrous. But sometimes others will pretend this, in order to test

So I want to say a bit about collectivism---meaning viewing individuals as groups rather than seeing an individual as an individual. Intellect uses "sameness recognition" and "difference

The neocon deep state, via their U. of Chicago's Cass Sunstein, aka the information control Czar of the Obama Administration, initiated a covert program, similar to the infamous FBI Co-intel program, to

When you have self esteem aka a lack of self condemnation---it changes your esteem, love and compassion for others. When that self condemnation is present, it's not actually humility, not real humility---since

Men and women are in most cases very different mentally and emotionally. For most women, if you engage in an all out debate with them, you will appear to be a clueless asshole who doesn't understand

I'm not easily impressed. You could have spent years studying in school, and have degrees and letters after your name. I'm not impressed. Your ability to jump through hoops and do as you are told? It doesn't

Self esteem is a state of mind. Do you love yourself? I mean do you sincerely love and adore yourself? If you understand the difference between self-confidence and arrogance the notion of valuing yourself