Is it a curse or a bless? Or else neither?
What do you think?
Is it a bad thing to be doubtful?
First thing we would do is, jump right into its negative aspects. We eventually would doubt his/her sanity too.
Meaningless… Isn’t it?
Let’s, analyse this together.
FIRST CASE SCENARIO.
Is it just a trouble?
For this you have to answer a few questions, not out loud, but answer them honestly in your mind.
Now, discussing these questions further.
1. If you take people’s concern as your priority than you would always suppress your thoughts and shift them to other’s opinions.
Being social is must, but not at the cost of changing or transforming your own mind-set to match up the others.
Now, referring to the next question.
2. If you’re someone who gives importance to ‘heart’ then you’re an emotional personal.
It’s not a flaw…It’s definitely a good thing but being an emotional fool can be misleading.
WHY???
See…..Take it for an example…Logically speaking, our brain is called the Central Processing Organ of our body…It is the main controlling part and hence, it’s main work is to direct thoughts, intelligence, behavior and mostly everything we can think of.
Whereas
Our hearts are meant to purify blood…That’s it…!
It’s main work is to pump and purify the blood.
Then why do we say, ‘think from our heart’?
• Is it even rational?
Now, time for the last question…
3. If you’re someone who admits the truth to yourself…then cheers, you’re safe. I guess there are still a lot of people who can’t really admit the truth to themselves; neither do they accept that in front of others… May be they are afraid or even shy to accept who they actually are.
And somehow, I find these three behaviors co-related.
How…..?
Firstly, when we prioritize others’ opinions more than ourselves, then we are just being a follower.
Secondly, thinking from our heart just seems like a cliche.
And lastly, when we are skeptical about our individuality, then how can we expect to be certain with our decisions.
And for the most part, I guess these three people are more convenient to suffer from anxiety or similar issues.
SECOND CASE SCENARIO
Is it a good thing?
When we face trouble in giving surety or assurance in everything, It is certainly not a good thing though…but, if it is concerning you…your well being or even your health etc then, I believe it’s a good thing.
For instance – good and bad anxiety…over thinking isn’t always bad, is it?
For example – When you’re in a long term relationship and you still have commitment issues regarding the partner or the continuity of the relation or whatever, then I guess you’re being concern about yourself, which is a good thing, I believe.
In my case, I find it tough when it comes to ensuring some particular things like career, job, and settlement…
Just being immature, right?
But…hypothetically speaking…we all say that ‘the future is uncertain’ then I find no harm in having doubts and double checking the actions we take. I mean we don’t even know what’s gonna come up the next day.
For me it’s definitely not a good thing but it’s not a threat either.
I guess, now, I should sum up my crazy talks…But, lastly…
• What do you think, can be done to tame it..? Only if it bothers you…
Please write your opinions…I would love to know more.
Lastly, thank you everyone for going through my post…Have a great day.
**THANK YOU**