Hello everyone. Do you agree with me that mothers often think that too much is expected from them? 🙂
That thought comes from worrying that we will not be able to meet our children's expectations. Sometimes we set unrealistic expectations for ourselves because we feel the pressure to be perfect mothers.
I speak from my experience because I am a mother and I sometimes expect too much from myself, but I shouldn't. We don't have to do extraordinary and impossible things to make our children happy. We don't have to be perfect superpowerful moms. Our children don't expect too much from us.
I was in an educational center with my son when I saw an illustration that I liked and I decided to share it with you and write a post about it.
I am speaking now on behalf of children who want to be happy and don't need too much for their happiness. So, our children want to tell us the following words.
I expect from my mother...
To sleep with me
Bad-sharing is an interesting topic to discuss. Some parents sleep with their children, but some don't. I don't. My children sleep in their beds, but I feel that sometimes they need closeness. We don't have to be in their bed all night but before sleeping we can be for a while with them, while we are telling them the story... This closeness will recharge their batteries and give them energy for a good night and a new day.
To smile and make me smile
Our smile is the most beautiful smile for our children. There are never enough smiles. They need to be shared all the time. Our smile is children's strength.
To kiss me
Research has shown that kisses are necessary for our children's emotional, physical and cognitive development. Through the warmth and emotions expressed by kisses and hugs, children build trust and communicate with their parents even before they learn to talk.
To keep me warm
When we hug our children, they feel the warmth that helps them to feel happier, healthier, smarter, and closer to us. Hugs are very beneficial for children to feel safe and satisfied.
To carry me
Closeness again. Children need physical contact for their good development. It is beneficial for their emotional intelligence development. This moment should not be avoided.
To speak with me
We should always share our thoughts and ideas with our children and allow them to express their opinions. Communication between parents and children is crucial. Children enjoy listening to us, especially before sleeping when they expect to hear an interesting story.
To comb me
Children like it when we touch their hair. It is a relaxing moment for them.
To wait for me
When it comes to children, patience is very important. We have to wait for them in every situation. They need our patience, especially when they want to tell us something.
To caress me
It is an emotional need, a powerful language between children and parents, stronger than words. It is very important and has a positive impact on children's psychological and cognitive health.
To bathe me
Bathing brings a lot of fun. We should do this activity with love and affection. Children feel our protection and care and it is an enjoyable moment for them.
To sing to me
They like to hear our voices. It makes them feel calm. Sometimes we forget this activity and we shouldn't. Singing creates a better mother-child bond.
To rejoice
Children love to see that we are happy and satisfied. We should never forget to support them and praise them for all the good they do. This strengthens their self-confidence.
This post aims to free you from worries that you will not be able to meet your children's expectations. Get rid of pressure and enjoy every moment with your children. They need YOU, not a superhero. If you still don't have children, this article can be a useful and thoughtful lesson for you to be ready for the beautiful moments of parenthood. When it comes to fathers, expectations are the same. 🙂
Thank you very much for reading.
The images and writing are original and mine.
Greetings!
Jelena
