A healthy relationship is what we want in our lives, is not it? But we usually don't care to nurture them. We expect that we will find a perfect match and our life would become full of life after that. I also used to believe that. It's like something magical will happen and it will make our life happy forever. It takes time to understand that life doesn't work like that and we need to work on making a relationship perfect.
I'm not only talking about any certain relationship but you can take it as a whole. Even it can be your relationship with your parents. If we don't work on it that relationship would not be sharp forever. So, how can we do that? I personally believe that we have to work on our common sense. What we want to get from others, we need to show the same to others. There may come lots of egos, other emotional issues with the other person but at the end of everything we need to comfort each other, we need to support and love, otherwise, it's not gonna work.
The first thing we need to increase is our 'support'. Not just emotional support I mean every kind of support another person needs. We need to show them to keep a healthy relationship.
The second best thing is proper communication. We ruin a relationship all because we don't communicate and show our egos which is very toxic. It's hard to show our better face always but we need to do that.
The third but not the last is Share. Yeah, we need to share our life experiences, our emotional states, our goal, and everything to make it work.
We can help them with their feelings, we can help them with their own problems, we can help them with their work, we can keep them up, we can be part of their life so they can meet their goals, we can help them work and earn money, we can find new things to do for them, and we can make sure they eat healthy if they're hungry to improve their health.
For the most part, it doesn't need to be a super-concerned person we're looking for. If someone is looking at their self-esteem and thinks their work isn't as high as they should be we have to be there for them in order to make sure they get on their feet and keep their self-esteem high.
For the future, we need to do some more research and find out more about people who have similar experiences but have never been to a therapy center. This helps us make better choices if our family is going through some hard moments. A counselor's advice is to have a couple of good times at once but it can be difficult to understand them when you do not understand your own.
We always want assurance that others will be there when we need them. There are a lot more things actually related to making a healthy relationship. Today I tried to cover some basic things which we need to take care at the first place to make a relationship works. Maybe I'm gonna share some more in the future!
