You can help only those who are willing to accept help and it is not the case in stubborn people. First you should have open mind and willingness to listen to ideas/opinion of others because you cannot be right everytime. You might be overseeing something which could be wrong and 3rd party view can give you different perspective about it and give you more clear insight. We cannot do everything ourselves and in the moment of crises, it is totally ok to ask for someone's help.
While it is tempting to tell our children that we love them no matter what, it is ultimately a cop-out. The truth is, we do not love them when they are dependent on drugs or alcohol or are struggling in a relationship. We do not love them if we do not understand or know how to help them in the face of different challenges.
But the thing is Parents can't help their child until they tell themselves what the problem is, whether it's anger issues or something else. Mothers can't help their kids until they acknowledge what their own feelings are. They need to love their child even when they are struggling with issues they don't even realize they have. In the same way, if a person is addicted to alcohol or some other drug and has a sensation of realisation that should stay away, he can help himself by going to the Rehab Center and getting his treatment done
If a loved one tells you he or she is having problems, take the time to listen. Make sure you are not judging the person. ask them about the problem how it started and how it feels and dont put down because it takes a lot of courage to tell someone about a problem or personal issue, putting him down or judging him will be bad for that person.
We can't always fully hear what another person is saying. Others will sound better than we can. If there is a period of silence, or you cannot grasp the depth of someone else's understanding, try to at least partially understand what was said before you speak. There is much wisdom in listening to other people, and this is a way to achieve the benefit of someone else's understanding.
These are ultimately personal problems which the individual should decide for himself if the slightest more help is necessary. Anyone on the receiving end does this, therefore it should be no surprise to a person in such a situation that the following message should come through without hesitance and without judgment.
Think about your own problem. Then go seek help if required. Just to be clear this is basic but it is very important. You cannot solve problems of others without solving your own. Just be honest and tell yourself that if it needs your help, then it probably will. There is no time to worry about trivial things and please remember there is hope for everyone
