Hello, Galenkp, hugs from the Caribbean. To paraphrase this author, who I love to read, I can tell you with certainty from my experience that, as much as possible, I redefine my success, choosing the battles I want to win. I say this because in nature the survival of what survives and what dies, is not always associated with brute force, for example an old and firm tree can break branches in a storm while a finite and very thin branch weak, flexible, bends and straightens in the same storm.