It's the whole....you can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink. Not that I am calling anyone a horse...lol I think because of the history of what CTP was built on (traffic exchanges) people got into a mindset where all they had to do was put their affiliate links out there and they'd get sign ups. They never did, mind you. But .... the ones that did, didn't spam but did things to stand out and engage.

I am not sure I want to know the answer to your last question...haha how DID people see us? ;)

Thanks as always for your support!