I'm feeling lonely, I'm alone, no one care, this is what you mzy say or hear from people, but we have more than 7 billions people in the world, how can you be alone in this word. I too used to think that way, but not anymore, let me tell you where you should look to know that you are not alone.
Some years ago, i was in a state of despair, i thought it was better to be left alone and die, then i can be free. But i was wrong, i was never alone, i had people i talk to, people who cares for me. I will tell you about them.
MY BROTHER
He always had my back, he speaks to me with respect that is due to me, we spend time together, i just didn't realized that i was never alone, i had a number supporter close to me all along. He is the best brother, more than what i asked for.
FRIENDS
Yes i said friends, you don't know it yet, i too didn't notice at first, but they are there, always trying to talk to you. Just like when i was still feeling alone, there was this guy, always bugging me, i initially just wanted to be alone, but this guy won't give up, always looking for new opportunities to talk to me, sometimes i snub him. But one day, i started to change the way i think and actually gave in, surprisingly i liked his company, with that i was also opened to more people. At first i didn't wanted to engage with him cause of age differences but sometimes your next best friend may be a younger then you. So, give that person a chance and try a conversation, it will be a releive to you and a healing to you mentally and emotionally.
YOUR PARENTS
They actually gave birth to you, they may not actually show their emotions the way you expect, but they love you, you just misinterpreted their actions. They go through a lot everyday but still come back for you. If only you had the eye's of God, you will see pray each night for you, for your success, for you to overcome your fears and pursue your dreams. They also need your love and care, so instead of thinking they don't understand how you feel, give them the opportunity to know you and understand you.
They're more people like your relatives, your neighbors, your co-workers, they are always there, but the biggest problem you have and what blinds you is just yourself. You think is all on you, you are the victim. No, you're not, you just proclaimed yourself a victim. So let others make you know you are no victim, you are loved by people and close friends.
**CONCLUSION **
You are not and never will you be alone, try to let others see you, look beyond appearance, don't shut yourself out, don't be your own villain in your story, let yourself be loved. With all i said the main and biggest factor that will help you is still yourself, the same way you are holding yourself back, you can also liberate yourself. So friends, no one is truly all, that's not how nature work, so don't defy it, thank you for your time, hope someone out there may be encouraged after reading this post.
