It seems that quite a few women use or list music to sooth the savage beast @beatriche, it seems to calm the women down far more than anything else. But there is nothing more powerful or persuasive than a guy who tells a woman to "calm down" hahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NOT!!!!!!!!
That is the very last thing any sane guy would want to tell an angry woman hahahaha!!!
Glad you figured out the awesome things that work their magic and calm you down, and yes, experiences tend to shape not only women, but everyone.
!LADY