As a guy you must learn how to negotiate, you must learn how to sell, learn to speakbin public, learn to stay calm on that place, learn to walk away, learn to say no, learn
to delay gratification, learn to keep to your word.
These particular skills will make you more money than any other thing. You don't have to be a man that lacks masculinity. Always go for the best, always do what you have to do always have a way of organizing and putting things right because there's nothing left for you.
If you don't organize it nothing really happens to you if you don't make any move so you must learn standards you must learn boundaries you must learn how to be at the right time and the right place no matter what.