Uffda.

I could say something glib like, "trade that blockhead for a block-and-tackle to handle heavy lifting," but that doesn't really do any justice to your situation. Or, I could self-righteously proclaim, "it takes two to fight," but we all know that's horse shit, even though I don't know your particular situation.

You built this one step at a time. You can regroup and rebuild one step at a time, too. I have no idea what hurdles you face in the weeks ahead. Just focus one jump at a time.