Those extremes will only happen if we don't tell people who God really is. People who get lazy and depend on Him without work don't truly know God, and people who, despite working hard, don't trust God and take credit for themselves after being successful, don't know God either.

Yes, you're right. We need to be concerned about our welfare and the welfare of others. That's why we always need to align our values according to God's teachings and remind others about them. That is the only way people can stay on track, and I also believe it is the best way to help people.