I feel your pain. A lot of my college buddies have come to visit me here and they are just drawn in by the fact that you can drink and party basically all the time and there are no repurcussions for that. I do inform them when they arrive that while I understand they are on vacation, I am not, and they need to understand and respect that. Sadly, they almost always end up getting drawn in by the red light district here and wasting a ton of money on that trap.
RE: A visit from an old friend opens my eyes to how much I have grown