RE: RE: Psychology and Healing: On Stating the Facts, Assuming Blame and Other Defensiveness
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RE: Psychology and Healing: On Stating the Facts, Assuming Blame and Other Defensiveness

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I know I am not unique in this, but I don't hint or lead or.... I just mean exactly what I am saying. It always surprises me later to see that someone was wondering what I really meant. I'm not cryptic in my speech, but it seems that people don't always take it for what it is.

On the other hand, I see myself thinking someone meant something that they didn't, simply because I know what I would be meaning if I said the same thing....LOL !

I never know when I am going to be on a different page from someone else. I take it innocently and am not expecting games. Later, all of the sudden I come to realize that was not what was meant.