The summary of what I learn't,
There are obligations and vows that we must keep, regardless of how difficult or difficult things are for us. We must keep such vows that we made, since they came out of our lips as a vow to God.
We are to forgive those who owe us, as it is a good deed and a demonstration of our Lord Jesus' teachings, because it will cause them to thank God for his love and mercy, and we should be thankful as well because this is God's Will for us. Tithing is not a Christian doctrine. Christ taught us to donate according to our hearts' desires. So instead of taking from people by educating them about tithing, we should teach them the correct philosophy about giving.
Deuteronomy 23:21-23 When you make a vow to the Lord your God you must not delay in fulfilling it, for otherwise he will surely hold you accountable as a sinner. If you refrain from making a vow, it will not be sinful. 23 Whatever you vow, you must be careful to do what you have promised, such as what you have vowed to the Lord your God as a freewill offering.
In the true church we were taught that when we give our tithes and offerings to god, we should do so from our heart and from what we have, without being forced to do so by our pastors.
II CORINTHIANS 9:7
Every man according as he purposeth in his heart, so let him give; not grudgingly, or of necessity: for God loveth a cheerful giver.
2 Corinthians 8:3 For to their power, I bear record, yea, and beyond their power they were willing of themselves.
Through christ we should offer the sacrifice of thanksgiving and praise unto God continually.
Hebrew 13:15 By him therefore let us offer the sacrifice of praise to God continually, that is, the fruit of our lips giving thanks to his name.
1 Corinthians 10:21 Ye cannot drink the cup of the Lord, and the cup of devils: ye cannot be partakers of the Lord's table, and of the table of devils.
The table in the church or place to feed.
Philemon 1:21 Having confidence in thy obedience I wrote unto thee, knowing that thou wilt also does more than I say.