The above quotation may sound controversial to a lot of you, but you should step back a little and cast your minds back to certain situations that may not necessarily be in marriage, you may remember incidents that perhaps is not too different from it. The circumstances no doubt will be different, but the feeling is usually similar.
Such attitude as may be displayed by the man during the wedding night or any such new meetings, may inflict in the woman or wife a mental upon her by exposing himself without preamble. Insisting that she should bare hard body as well may also cause her physical pain by thrusting his way through to sexual union.
In the Encyclopedia of Sexual knowledge the following excellent advice was given to a young husband.
'on your wedding night, seduce your wife by all means; but do it with delicacy and consideration, keeping in mind that the least false step will make in her heart wounds that will never heal'.
It went further to advise that
' The marriage lines do not give the man carte blanche To do as he chooses; if the brides modesty and instinctive resistance raise obstacles that are too great for him to seduce her, consummation of the marriage is better postponed for a night, several nights, or even for weeks, until she accustomed herself to physical contact and learned to desire actual panetration
Sounds incredulous right? This may not be applicable to you in all particulars simply because you have not encountered a woman so inexperienced. But there are men who have come across some such as described above.
For the girl who gets a man so experienced and patiently endowed, that's her good fortune and heaven. As for the woman who gets a man who looks at her as his priced possession to be devoured that night and without preamble, that is her hell.
So, It must not be supposed from this that the man is advised to remain inactive until his woman makes a request for intercourse. He must seek to arouse her desire, and in so doing help to overcome any timidity or resistance.
"let the masterly touch of her lover be invariably pleasing, because the average woman likes to feel herself conquered"
#DISCLAIMER
I AM NOT AND EXPERT NOR AN AUTHORITY LICENCED TO TEACH OR PREACH SEX. ON THE CONTRARY, I AM SIMPLY AN INDIVIDUAL WHO IS FACINATED WITH THE VERY IDEA OF SEX AND ALL THAT IS NEEDED TO BE KNOWN. (IT IS MY BELIEVE THAT EVERY MAN OR WOMAN, WHO HAS WARM BLOOD FLOWING THROUGH HIS OR HER VAINS AND SINEWS SHOULD BE EQUALLY INTERESTED ABOUT THE SUBJECT OF SEX).
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