As humans, we're from a historical standpoint created to be part of the herd.
The western culture as we know it, where the richest, strongest, smartest or most skilled is the Alpha.
Our brain tells us "that's what I want to be" right?
Yes...
Why are people behaving like everybody else then?
Good question...
Lack of courage
What's the opposite of courage?
It's not cowardliness.
It's conformity.
When people noticed you're different in a positive way, they will conform to you.
It's attractive for positive and negative people instead of natural people who will mean nothing but, they won't hurt you as well.
What does this tell?
Conformity is safe.
The herd knows how the circle it will go and end, walking a different path feels like an adventure without definite path but, with a destination. People like this, so they want to be part of this road.
Depending on which perspective you see the world will determine what you attract into your life.
You're in the driver seat, choose
Positive or negative
So watch out but, enjoy walk