For starters, I don't think I have a photo related to this topic. Hahahahaha
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Let's talk about masturbation...
I remember the first time I acknowledged this. I was having fun with a bunch of friends at the beach, and we we're drinking alcohol. So, one of them decided to make it fun, and play never have I ever... because nothing is more fun than telling the truth by drinking.
One person said: "Never have I ever masturbate."
And I saw people drink their shots, mostly guys, and few girls, and my best friend asked me: "Have you not?" And I felt strange, but I do later drink because, yes, I have done that, but never told about it.
So... I think culturally and socially, women are more afraid about being open to talk about masturbation. I think (and this is probably me) we all feel a bit insecure and shamed about doing it. Like if it was a terrible thing. As fas as I concerned, men do it all the time, and they spoke freely about, without hesitations or feeling guilt or shame. They just do it. Then, why do we feel different about that topic?
I must say, I do it. Not all of the time, but some nights of the week. And I do enjoy it, the rush and the final breath, the numbness of my body. How do I get there? Well, sometimes I think about a person, someone who gets me and I feel connected to. When I do it, it helps me to sleep better. To feel calm. And also it helps me to get me know myself better, what I like, what I don't. And it's normal.
Also, it is helpful when you don't have a partner hahaha 馃槅.
I think, once I allowed myself to be conscious of the pleasure I could feel by my own, I stopped thinking it was a dirty thing to do. And I won't stop practicing. Self pleasure shouldn't be a taboo these days. We're moving forward, and sometimes I just think people can see that.
Sometimes, I think about buying an adult "toy". You know, changing some things would give more colors to our life. Satisfaction it's something we can get with our own hands...
Well... that's what I have to say. 馃槄馃槄 Feel free to leave a comment.
