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do these tips so that you do not become a person who is not easily jealous, either jealous because of love or material.

1. Find Out Which Makes It Easy to Be Jealous

You are often annoyed at being jealous of many things, but you can't explain why you are jealous. Try to calm yourself and take a breath, ask yourself why you can be jealous of blindness. Is it because someone else has the latest smartphone? Or because of the person you like chatting with other women? If you already know what causes jealousy, let's go to the next point.

2. Stop comparing yourself with others

Now think about what makes you very jealous, one of which is the habit of comparing yourself with others. When you compare the latest smartphone of someone else's to yours, there arises jealousy of not having it. When a man who you like to chat with other people, suddenly you feel another woman is more beautiful and more everything you appeal. Makamarilah contemplate the next point.

3. Learn To Believe

What good is jealousy? You often save feelings of disappointment, envy, feeling unable and so on. Try to get rid of things like that, because to reduce jealousy, you must believe. Believe in yourself, that you can also have the same smartphone when it's time and need it.

Believe in the man you love, that he will not easily turn to another woman. Learn to believe, because people who are easily jealous usually have a low self-esteem and doubt.

4. Learn sincerely

You can't live and get everything you want, everything has limits. Then learn to be sincere. When there is jealousy coming, someone is more likely to cause envy, so forget to be grateful for what he has. If you express a number of things, then you will be more grateful for what you have now.

5. Recognize Jealousy

Jealousy that occurs in a relationship is a feeling of hatred towards people who are considered to be sexual rivals. Jealousy is a combination of fear and anger, fear of losing a loved one and anger at seeing a partner attracted to another woman. Behind this fear and anger, there is usually a desire to control your partner.

So, before taking an excessive response from jealousy, you should first identify the situation. Think more objectively. Ask yourself, whether when he goes to lunch with his female colleagues have a strong reason to be envied or this is just your negative thoughts.