Rivalry is good and helps you succeed but competition especially at a lifetime leads to otherwise and is detrimental to your success let me explain if you have a friend who goes with you to the gym you are likely to establish some rivalry which pushes you to do more but if he lives away you are challenged to do the same that is good but wanted to buy a car.
Because a man had bought one and not because you can afford or need it it's competition a man.
A man of class seeks to accomplish things to better himself. A person of our culture desires to acquire things in order to beat others. There's a big difference between these two. And nothing is stopping you from that.
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