be made to lead up to it naturally - I agree with this and I also know how hard it is. Sometimes, even if you have the whole story in your mind, it's hard to put it in the right words an make it flow naturally so that the reader doesn't feel you're faking it. However, if you're really into writing, this process should simply come naturally, if not in the beginning, at least later, as you practice more cause, in the end, only practice makes perfect.