I think social media has broken society and the idea of healthy competition. I remember during my school days teachers used to compare everyone against the topper. It was a motivation to the other kids to be better and earn the appreciation and the class topper is to work hard to stay on top. But something changes as we grow up.
Now the comparison is no longer a motivating factor. But it adds to depression.
kids are very susceptible towards such situations nowadays.

I say if you want to compare just do it with yourself. Compare your today with yesterday and make sure that it is better. Measure your progress. Everyone is running their obstacle course. We just have to finish ours.

Cheers. ☮️💟