Some bond are bound to change

Humans are the most complicated creatures that exist in this world and it's because their thoughts are unique and it's getting complicated to understand what they are thinking. Sometimes they don't even know what they are doing and what they are thinking and sometimes they do the opposite almost what they are thinking. So human behavior is indeed a complex subject to understand and every human needs to face it.

And the present world people are getting selfish. Without any benefit, very few people are willing to help others and stay as friends. Most of the human relationships are based on the benefit. Additionally, the behavior of one also matters because most of the time, it is the deciding factor in relationship even if it's related to benefit. Most people love to maintain a relation as long as the other party keeps praising them and supporting them. But many times, it has been noticed when the same person stopped supporting or keep quiet the bond changes and this stops caring about this relation. So, most of the relation are related to benefits and how we behave. Instead of it there exist some genuine bond which is precious.

I am a human and I also have relations and I am connected with many people. Naturally, I am a person belonging from introvert category and because of which I try to connect fewer but important people as I think it can help me to save my energy. Instead of it I also found many people who are different when certain changes. As I'm picky, how I need to come to choosing friends, I naturally test most of them. Additionally, I have good knowledge about psychology which helps me to understand their nature. So, what happens when I stop showing closeness to certain people and how they react. Sometimes it can be intentional and sometimes it's not intentional, but the result matters.

I'm usually good at maintaining any relationship because I think that I have fewer bonds with people and I try to protect it but I also know that it cannot be protected from one side. Several times when I become busy with my work and cannot give my time to them. During that time, I can realize how much importance I carry for them. Some of them call me and ask about my situation and some choose not to be. But it's not the thing how I decide those people care about me or not. It actually happens when I try to reconnect with them after I become free. Because in that time when I try to talk with them, I can understand if they are feeling distant to me or still, I feel closeness to them like the earlier days. Fortunately, most of the people I met, or I picked, stayed close to me. Instead of it, still there are some people with whom I feel distant.

I think when someone becomes close to me or builds a relation to me to take certain advantages, they start to act differently after a gap, and it can easily be understood while talking to them after a long break. I just feel that they become distracted while talking or they don't pay attention to what I am saying to them. Again, there are some people who show me jealousy through their words, even if it's not intentional. I can feel it very clearly and I start to keep distance from them. Even if it happens with me, only for few cases, but It's not a good thing and it don't give me good feeling. But I always get myself ready to accept this kind of change because humans can betray at any time.