Not Tradition Yet

December already arrived and after finishing 11 months successfully giving a feeling like 11 months crossed in a single glance. Many things have already been achieved and still, there are many things to achieve in the future and the same kind of thoughts come to everyone's mind especially when December arrives and it's quite natural. For some people December is the Christmas season, for some people, it's the winter season, and something others. So naturally in most of the country in December is popular for holidays. So in this time, every family has their unique ways to enjoy their December time and those things used to happen for many years that it almost became like a tradition.

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From my childhood time, I grew up in a village. The academic session ends in the middle of December and so in the last 15 to 20 days of December are holidays as well as our free time. It was the time all of my family members used to visit in my aunt's flat who lived in town. As well as I can remember we never missed visiting my aunt's house. My aunt's place was the place for the 4 sister's reunion place at the end of December and naturally, it was the time and place for the reunion of cousins (mother's blood-related) also. And for someday, we enjoy the time with cousins, and for that reason, we used to wait for the December month in each year. Now we have shifted to the town and live a nearby place of my aunt's flat. But still, in December The system remains the same. It was not so official thing or a traditional thing but from childhood time used to see it and I think for my family it became a tradition.

In my previous post, I said that at the end of December, all the cousins (father's blood-related) arrange a picnic in each year and we cook food outside of our house and enjoy some quality time with cousins and other family members. It didn't happen from earlier but we cousins started to arrange the picnic in December each year we started to understand and grow up. In the last 9 years ( if I am not wrong ) it was happening and we decided to continue it. So it became a tradition type something for us and I think till we are alive the picnic will continue naturally. That kind of traditional thing is good for us and it helps us to make the bond strong between us.

At the exact of the ending time of December in the exact time of New Year, we can see various kinds of fireworks in the sky. I think it's very hard to see a person who doesn't love to see fireworks in the sky. So naturally I enjoy fireworks with my family members. The moments seem magical.

It's winter season here and in Asia winter season is known as wedding season also. So naturally we receive invites from many relatives for weddings. Although it's not possible to attend in every wedding but I attend all the weddings where my parents go. It's weird psychology here to get married in the winter season and I was unable to find any logic behind it but I am noticing it from my childhood.

So in my case, all the thing I shared here is not the tradition from ancient time and all of the things set by us. Those are not actually traditions but those become traditions for us means for my family.