Broken friendship

After family members, friends are the most important for a person. I think life without friends would be boring, and I think nobody wants to imagine a life without having any friends. Family members of the fated, and it was beyond our control, but I need to come to choosing a friend. It was made by us or chosen through communications. Without friends, life could be boring. At least a few friends are needed to make our lives interesting and to share our thoughts with them.

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It's true that we make friends with good intentions. But everyone does not everyone deserves to be a friend. As humans, sometimes we make mistakes in choosing friends, or sometimes our friends change for several reasons. The reason can be anything. But I think it mostly depends on the person.

Since childhood time we make many friends, and at each stage of life, the number of friends starts to increase, and after a certain time, it becomes difficult to give time to everyone, which is understandable, and because of that reason, communication between friends sometimes decreases. Some people say that it can affect friendships, especially old friendships, but I have a different thought about it. I believe that as long as both friends want to remain friends, it doesn't matter even if there is no communication. Even if they communicate after a long time, the conversation would be very friendly, and that's the magic of friendship. It doesn't give the feeling of talking to a friend after a long time.

But sometimes some fronts change after achieving a better position in life. Maybe they think friendship should be done with an equal level or in the same class. So when they go to the upper level, they try to cut off all the old friends unless it's beneficial. I have seen some people like that, and to be honest, I think that kind of mentality means that they have a narrow mind and come to think about friendship in a wider perspective.

In my case, I make friends rarely, and whenever I become friends with someone, I want to keep the friendship till the end unless a friend tries to come out of it. Those kinds of friends never say they are breaking a friendship. They show it through their actions, and it is understandable to anyone unless one is foolish.

All the friends I made in my life are still friendly to me, but I can remember that there was a friend of mine who started to ignore me after a certain time. I became friends with him when I was in XI class, and for 2 years we were very friendly and used to share our thoughts with each other.

Both of us attended university admission tests together. Everything was well. I got the chance to be admitted to several public universities, but he didn't get the opportunity to be admitted to any public university.

I was admitted to the public university. He didn't get the chance to get into a public university, but he got admitted to a non-governmental university. It was a popular one among nongovernmental organizations, and it was a university for rich people. Within a few months, commutation decreased a little bit. But he started to change. I didn't know what changed him. I didn't know if he was jealous of my academic achievement or if he changed because of the new environment with rich people. I used to call him sometimes, but I understood that, indirectly, he was humiliating me. When such a thing happened several times, I stopped making manual effort, as I realized that there was no spark of friendship. That's how the friendship ended.

Do you think I feel bad because of it? To be honest, I didn't feel bad because I am not an emotional person. I always think about myself as a solo warrior, and I don't care if anyone make distance from me. In his case, he humiliated me indirectly, and with that, he lost his position in my heart.