Human is a social beings and getting married after a certain time is very natural. Today I am going to highlight the age of marriage. This means that does age play a role in the case of marriage or not. So let's start.
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I used to see a gentleman get married to a lady who is junior to him. In most cases, I have seen it. A thought came to my mind at that time what's wrong with getting married to a same-age girl getting married with an older than a man. At that time I was small to understand it. As I grow up, I started to understand many things.
I was able to know that the maturity of the girls came before a boy. It means at the same age the maturity of girls are much better than a boy(not all the time). The adolescence time of a female start earlier than a male also. From this biological perspective, a girl needs to marry a boy who is at least 3/4 years to her. In that kind of relationship, both husband and wife can understand each other because in the case of maturity, both are in the same stage and it means better understanding.
In the past times, I used to think that same-age relationships and marriage is perfect and that understanding occur between them. But with time my opinion changed. Because I discussed it with several people who have done it. In the case of same-age marriage, both are equal in quality. Most of them said that their partners don't want to listen when some disagreement happens. In the case of making a decision disagreement can be natural. Both husband and wife have logic and they are equal to it. In that kind of situation, nobody wants to lose and nobody has the superior power there. Such kind of little things creates a huge impact later. Besides, after a certain age male partners don't get sexual satisfaction which is a matter of concern.
I am not going to say anything in the case of an older female partner and a junior male partner because I haven't seen anyone like this.
Let's come back to the first case. Meaning getting marriage between a male and a junior female. In the case of making a decision, the husband's opinion gets the most priority. And naturally, the wife accepts the decision because they believe as a senior they will take the best decision and they respect their husband ( not all the time). The husband has superior power. Another situation can also happen. His wife denies her husband's decision the husband has the mentality to understand the reason behind denying it. From one perspective you can say that females get dominated in this case. Remember one thing that, a wife has the power to manipulate her husband. They know how to decision that come in their favour if their husband is not bad. From this perspective, a woman can control his husband like how she wants even if she is younger than her husband. So how can you say that women are dominated? If it's true that women are dominated then at the same time it's also true that husbands also dominated.
So I prefer to marry a younger female person for a happy and longer sexually satisfied life where we can understand each other, and respect each other. I think is difference should not be more than 10 years because I think more than 10 years can create a generation gap and it will create misunderstanding between us and can lead to an unhappy life.
I am not married yet and my opinion can be wrong. I had no intention to hurt anyone. Feel free to share because still I think I have a lot ot things to improve in this case.
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