There's always something, a thought or an idea that is on top of each era, fashionable, how you're supposed to look or behave, but I think the most beautiful thing about the modern days is that you actually mostly can be what ever you want to be, look how you like and be as girly girl or manly man as you want to (or anything in between) and you do not, for instance go to jail for it.

One thing I've never understood though is that if someone wants to be certain way, really feminine or masculine (not depending on their gender), other people around them find it as a thread to them. If no-one is telling them to be alike then how is it a bad thing that there are different looking people around them because if that someone doesn't like how they look or behave, they don't have to be around them. That, I think, only reveals that the one who feels threatened, has a low self esteem.

It's of course sad if people feel the current trend around them is completely opposite than what they want to be because I think for instance media saying how a woman or a man should be, is always crap because only you can determine what you want to be or how you want to look or what kind of people you like or be with. So fuck it, be as feminine as you want and if a feminine man is not your cup of tee, move on to someone who is.