Uncertain, that's life. That is what you have to learn to live with, with uncertainty. We do not know what will happen to us, to our families, to our situations ... and if the only thing you have to know is how are you here and now and take charge of managing the best you can, what you have the chance to live in this moment?
Most people, on many occasions, live situations that are difficult for us to take or that even paralyze us: you do not know when the crisis will end, you do not know what to do, you do not know if you are doing the right thing, you do not know if you will get that client who is costing you so much, you do not know if they will renew your contract in your current job, you do not know if you will approve those exams that you are preparing with so much effort, you have lost your job and you do not know what you will do now, you do not know how You will pay the bills at the end of the month, you do not know if they will evict you tomorrow , etc.
There are infinite situations in which many of us find ourselves and we do not know how to take them, but even when you can not choose which situations you have to live in, you can still choose how to interpret them , how to act and what to get out of them. My grandmother tells me the time of the Spanish Civil War (1936-1939) with few negative memories and many positive and that attitude to life has always helped. Whatever happens, she keeps waking up every day and continues to breathe, enjoying and advancing because, despite the myriad of difficult situations she has had to live, she is happy. You can also choose if you want to live the situations that touch you live with anxiety, sadness, apathy, nervousness, irritability, bad mood ... or learn to accept that uncertainty as a part of your life trying to focus your attention on the rest of good things that They happen to you every day. What you resist persists, what you accept is transformed .
Last week I was informed that, unfortunately, the parents of an acquaintance of mine died in a traffic accident . Probably they thought they were going to live much longer however many other people, who sometimes felt that "life was running out", today we are still alive and we still have time to enjoy and dedicate to what we want. We all have an end because time is limited so think, decide and act, today and now. Detect what problems your mind occupies and what you can do to solve them. What you can do, do it! But if you have already done what you think you should and can not do anything else, learn to live happily with the situation that you have to live. Everyone wants happiness without pain, but you can not have a rainbow without rain. Do not always look for guilt or try to justify everything that happens continuously, spend that time to other things smile, dream, investigate, create, dance, help, build, grow, improve, discover, test, feel, love, enjoy, live !
Observe your situation and detect the opportunities that are presented today and now, but ... keep your eyes open and enjoy every moment that gives you life because if you are blinded by your problems it will be difficult to see anything! Stop thinking about what you can not change and start doing what you can do. Do not worry, take care! Win your life!