I will not answer the other questions

For privacy
I may not live near you

But I can tell you that my grandmother was mean to my mother's side of the family.
Not just "grandma" but the other family.
We never counted on them when my family needed them.
It's kind of a sad story
Good that some people have a good grandmother

Don't feel bad for me now I have my cats and my own family.

PD: I HATE UNNECESSARY DRAMA 😔.