The true personality, is based on what one thinks of oneself, in no way can be called a personality that needs the applause of others to feel good or be happy.
Many can be fooled by the appearances that mainly come from artists or TV people. But in truth, the personality is cultivated based on the inner knowledge of how valuable we are and can not be subject to dependence or need for approval.
If the personality requires the approval of others, it is not a personality or a false personality. Likewise, there is no personality without self-esteem, and whoever values himself and tries in a balanced way not to overfeed the ego, knows that the person who must first admire is himself before the exaggerated admiration for people that the media imposes praise.
"One's self-esteem can not depend on a group of people who lack it." Above all, the recognition must be that which one gives oneself, once that is so, one could only allow a moderate desire for recognition of others, having the tranquility in the thought that one handles control because it has that true personality.
As it was already said the balance is fundamental, the man or woman with personality must be serene, humble and silent in their confidence and security, their actions injected with positive energy will make it unnecessary to talk about their qualities, as they will project on their own .
Notwithstanding what has been said, at present it is called arbitrarily personality to what would come to be only the "character" related mainly to the "worship of the image" which is, of course, the business of the media.
Said "character" immediate stage superior to the "temperament" with which we are born has always been the immediate stage inferior to the "personality".
So if you insist on calling personality what is only character, then we do not make problems, then we would have to place people truly cultivated mentally within the supreme stage that we could call Superpersonality.
