You're very lucky, your husband got off lightly in that accident. When you're young, you think you can do anything and that you're immortal. I thought that way about 10 years ago too. I thought I'd never get a headache, never get back pain, or that everything would be fine the next day when I woke up, but I've realized that's not the case anymore.

The photo is beautiful. I hope you can get the lens you want someday.