You are correct about this 
You are in luck however - as I have the wounded inner child issue and it is a little more complicated than what you are asking. Perhaps I will make a post about it.
I have no idea how much work you have done on this and where you are at with it yourself. For me, I had to encounter a life / death situation for myself in order to surrender internally to having to unify the broken parts.
I came from a violent alcoholic family and therefore I personally have 4 parts - the wounded inner child, the inner teenager, the inner critical parent and me - the one who is recovering - the one who, according to the ACA people - would be the inner loving parent.
However, I have some other issues which make that impossible, so for me - I am the big sister and I made God my inner loving parent.
I got the book, The Loving Parent Guidebook, from Ebay - but I see now the ones on Ebay are more expensive so you can just get it here: https://shop.adultchildren.org/collections/books/products/loving-parent-guidebook - and it is also available for free on Anna's Archive, but I found having a hard-copy was essential once I got serious about this.
I went to a meeting which I found on this site - and I did not like it - but mind you, I have recovered in other fellowships, so I did not really need "another" fellowship or program as I have one that works just fine - but I don't know your situation - and you are more than welcome to contact me directly...through my website which is linked above in my blog.
Perhaps you are in Chile? There are phone / online meetings available on the site you can find and there is a good sub-reddit https://www.reddit.com/r/AdultChildren/ to help with identification and other information...
I read the LPG for about 8 months with friends on the phone... I think just reading it without doing the exercises really helped a LOT. I began to also talk to my inner child using my left-hand as the inner child - in a notebook - and I continue to do that today. That has worked for me.
I also used the emotion code to remove trapped emotions from my heart wall - that took a year - and was necessary preparation as well - this is also free to learn how to do - you can get the audio book or the book - teach yourself muscle testing, then remove the trapped emotions...
Now, regarding the energy healing: here is the recipe for that... and it is referred to as "soul retrieval" and it is not a one and done at all - which is why I can't "dowse for you" as you request - this is something you will have to do for yourself...
To learn to dowse is easy - use the Letter to Robin book - I did it in about 2 weeks - here is a site dedicated to it - or you can download it from the Mile High Dowsers Link I provided in my post here. https://lettertorobin.wordpress.com/ - mind you, I did watch a bunch of Raymon's videos on youtube, I talked to people on Facebook in his group and I also joined my local chapter...but another friend, in Romania, has none of these resources, and he is the one who introduced me to this - and he is doing fine with the materials he has access to - we have both bought some of Raymon's videos, etc. All of his books are available online for free, although I did buy a copy of The Future Is Yours used on ebay - for about $10 and that has basically everything in it.
Having learned to dowse - you then use the chart to find out what percentage your soul is in your body. You can also find out what percentage your soul was in your body at birth - (I had a difficult birth as well as the other horrible things that came after).
You will have to dowse this over and over, and probably for each part - so for example - what percentage does my inner critical parent still occupy my Aura today? ...30% I just got ... then I ask, "am I ready to integrate it?" - I get a YES on the chart - so I asked - "God, please change the frequency of the inner critical parent so that she is integrated with the rest of me." - so it swings counter clockwise for a while and then clockwise for a while - then stops.
I felt some weird feelings while that was happening. Then I asked, what percentage does my inner teen still occupy in my Aura today? and I got 40% but then I got a NO when I asked if I could integrate her.
This is not ALL I am doing - I am also paying attention throughout the day to thoughts and feelings in my body that make me fee like I am "wrong" - because my inner critical parent has gotten good at hiding - and the other parts - I try to notice when I go into "fight" - which is the teen. You will observe this more when you can read the LPG.
Raymon does have a video on the Soul Retrieval process - in which he does it for you - and you can play it over and over - It's called A Healthy Mind And Body and is available for sale on his website - https://www.raymongrace.us/
I did Raymon's soul retrieval video myself but I didn't feel anything like the weird feelings I just felt when I did myself - which tells me that having him do it for me on video is lightweight compared to what I can do for myself...
My experience with this is that it really only works when I am willing to do it myself, because that proves to my subconscious that I am ready to take full responsibility for myself (with God) - and therefore I will be able to handle it.
I hope this helps.
RE: My Current Experience With Pendulum Dowsing