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Life has become a place where people no longer value trust, someone who you might put all your love and trust on might not even value you, someone being your sibling or parent does not mean you can trust them fully, lots of scenerio has been happening, where siblings betray each other for money or valuable things, not to even talk of friends, someone you called your blood does not care about your feelings of trust towards them, not to talk of friends you met randomly.
Trust nowadays is something hard to build, trust arises as a result of love foundation, trust is based on love, but both are hard to find, every one has experienced and learn how to limit trust in people, marriage and love is now based on material things, no one can love you for who you are.
This makes me remember the story of my friends father, I mean a very close friend of mine, whose father gathered all his savings to travel out of the country, none of his family could contribute something for him to add up to his savings but God made it easy for him.
He got there and was struggling, luckily for him months after he got permission to started working, he would work extra hour just to get something to himself and to send to his family back home, then he wasn't married and he had no parents, he only had senior and junior siblings.
His intentions was to build house and save some money to start something big when he comes back, but unfortunately for him the siblings he trusted has been lavishing his money, and taking care of there personal need without even attending to the man's concern. This continued until,he asked for a picture of the house and they couldn't present something meaningful, he was so sad and disappointed in them which later cause dispute between them, not long after he came home to get married, but since then he has been coming and going back.
There's a saying that “blood is thicker than water”, I believe is for people that has not being being betrayed by their family or wife, alot of marriages has ended due to lack of trust, married men and women having extra-marital affairs, the only person we should have a full trust in is ourselves.