I have gone through lot's of changes in my life the last years adopting more conscious lifestyle on every level - physically, spiritually and sexually. And I would like to share with you my personal experience and my tantric knowledge when it comes to our sexual energy.
Once when we understand the enormous power of sexual energy and how it creates our life's experience, we become more conscious of how we express our sexuality - our vital life force.
Instant sexual satisfaction has become so easily accessible through the internet that modern society has become obsessed by it. We splurge our precious energy all over our bed-sheets masturbating in a dark corner in front of a screen...
I have had a couple of boyfriends who have been very much into porn and I have observed a several patterns. I am sure many other women will be able to relate to me.
I don't think porn is evil but it can deplete us and diminish our life force energy when misused and create a lot's of intimacy issues.
Besides the obvious violence and anything involving children, there are much more issues:
We get aroused by the porn rather than a person, and it becomes more and more difficult to get aroused by a person
Weak.
Bottom line.
"In a subtle way, excess ejaculations will diminish your courage
to take risks, professionally and spiritually. You will settle for
doing enough to get by, to be comfortable, but you will find that
you would rather watch TV than write your novel, meditate, or
make that important phone call.
You will have enough motivation to live a decent life, but ejaculations drain you of the “cutting through” energy that is necessary to pierce your own wall of lethargy and slice through the obstructions that arise in the world.” – David Deida
While porn creates unhealthy addictions and depleats our life force, when we make love with a partner is a true loving intimacy, according to Taoist tantra, this experience can enlighten the individual in a spiritual manner and has the potential to continuously massage and vitalise the inner organs of the body.
I have experiences some of the most blissful deepest orgasmic states in a deep tantric love making fully connected to my partner. Once when you experience true intimacy, you can't go back to anything less than that. It's like upgrading your food from junk food to healthy nutritious food.
We are DESIGNED to connect with each other on a very deep level. Human beings do not do well without feeling deep connection. We call it “neediness” and “being desperate” when someone is feeling disconnected. But it’s really just because deep down we know that we are capable of phenomenal connection. And when we feel this amazing connection, things in our lives just get better. Depression lifts. We don’t feel as anxious. We notice the joys in life. We appreciate each other. We feel a level of contentment and happiness that we just don’t experience when we are all alone.
In tantra, this connection comes first. This is the foundation of all the sexual play. It’s like you first have to “plug in” to each other before the energy can flow. And so there is real intention to drop our guards and allow each other inside to truly connect and experience each other.
Here's some of the benefits that you’ll experience when you don’t watch porn:
Your will-power will improve
You’ll become a master of your sexuality
You’ll have more energy to undertake productive pursuits
You’ll be motivated to go out and meet women or share much deeper intimacy with your woman being fully present and becoming a better lover
After just 30 days, you will feel this inner masculinity emanating out into world around you. You’ll be able to feel the arousal, respect the urge and embrace this new feeling. You will be able to redirect this sexual energy in new more powerful ways.
I hope you have benefited from my article in some way and let me know in your comments your thoughts and if you are up for this challange.
Ilze Mystic Muse
