The world moves at different pace with everyone and that's okay because we all are just different people
We only get worked up with thinking because we think we all are meant to move at the same pace
The more we realize our individuality makes us different from one another the more we realize it's okay to move at a different pace, and the more we become at peace with ourselves and go easy with ourselves
Life would always be with ups and down. It's just different ups and down for everyone,sometimes some get knocked down without help other times some overcome
sometimes advice from loved ones keeps us moving and help us stay on track and other times we get off track all because of advice
As individuals with friends and loved ones, whenever we are in trouble or in need our loved ones would always want to help in any way they can maybe with money,advice or a helping hand and it's okay to accept such
The only important thing is to detect a good helping hand or advice from bad ones
So much good advice has contributed to the good things I enjoyed so far and some bad advice has also made things slow
That's life, for every good comes bad too. The only important thing is to always differentiate the good from the bad, that way we sieve goodness from bad
High school was a different phase of life with a small circle of friends who believed we can all move at the same pace since we all are in the same age bracket
But life is not like that, everyone moves at different paces, and I began to see that when I graduated from high school
As a young one who had just finished high school then I had this mentality of getting admitted directly to higher institutions immediately because that's the next move
But life with moving at different paces sets in
And the small circle of friends from high school with the same age bracket began to move at a different pace
Some got admitted to higher institutions that same year we finished high school while others like me were hindered by one issue or another
The second year came, those who were admitted proceeded to the next level
some got admitted and there was another set like me who still got hindered by different issue of not being picked and all
Now we all are moving at different paces and I was feeling left behind
To continue the friendship with them was becoming hard because I felt we all are now in different categories
There was a lot of pressure and still the admission thing is not working out
My dad noticed how hard I was on myself back then and each time he would always advise me to just continue to strife and let me know we all move at different paces even if we are of the same age bracket
The important thing is to always push and then you get to have what you've always longed for and even meet up
Being hard on yourself only breaks you down, rather turn all to momentum to gather and keep moving
And so each time I get advices like that I keep pushing
with time I got what have always longed for and then I realize we all move at different paces only hard work makes one meet up
His advice gave me the momentum I needed to keep pushing
And that alone made me realize how important it is to listen to good advice from good intentions