It is never a good thing, when things do not go the way we wanted and instead we get rejected
Sometimes one more trial is what is needed to win and a stop all because of rejection will prevent us from tasting what winning feels like.
Sometimes more attempts just make us better and prevent rejection another time.
Rejection sometimes can't be avoided either from a good state of mind to make us better or just hatred either way rejection has negative effects like depression anxiety, and sadness.
it's never an easy task when one gets rejected, ego is bruised, self-esteem Is hurt and self-worth is drowned
Rejection is an unpleasant experience, it always comes with pain, and it stings and puts one into doubt oneself. Truth is the fear of rejection only limits us and prevents us from experiencing more of what life has got in store for us.
I got an experience of this when a proposal was made for a few of us to work on an idea over a little project and from the ideas one or two should make a pass mark.
I remember I gave my all to this trying to make mine special and acceptable only for it to be rejected at the first submission and not even qualified, truth be told I was annoyed and at the same time pained.
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like not even to the round of screening?
I felt less worthy of myself and begin to doubt myself in other things,
It had a negative turn on me for a while and how I got over it was with my mindset
I remind myself that rejection is a general thing and it happens to everyone.
I remind myself of my self-worth and how worthy I am to avoid doubt
I try as much to give my best in everything to never be a victim of rejection and with time I got over it.
No matter how deep rejection stings the pain eventually fades away we are the ones to never allow it to limit us.