ITS OKAY TO JUDGE BEYOND LOOKS

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Everyone has got a uniqueness deposited in, it's why we are created differently and no matter how bad it looks outward the uniqueness still surfaces

It's one thing I tell myself every day to dessert the thinking of judging by looks

Those that said "looks can be deceiving" were right on the good and bad side

And that is why in picking a life partner we consider beyond looks

Looks are just a facials representation, behind looks settles true you

Looks are never enough to judge
Even books are not judged by the cover

You need to read and see what is behind those covers
The same thing applies to human you don't judge by the look of
of things

Life has been with different scenarios when I judge with the look, and each time I get surprised at how I still fall for that.

It never ends well each time I judge with a look, though sometimes I can be right but another time i'm just totally wrong

Brings me back to an old memory of how I judged by look

We had just started a new session in school and the plan was to get settled not until covid set in and a total lockdown was infused

It was one of those years I hate and never like talking about
Because covid and staying indoors all day messed with my mental health but then that's another story for another time

So my school thought of making things easy with virtual learning

So using the google classroom app for class was introduced

Each time we have a class there's always this guy who makes things difficult on purpose by not muteing his mic and the background noise and all just disturbs

Trust me with his look you'd probably label him as an unserious fellow

I did though,with is attitude and looks I judged him and labeled him and a type that's never serious or Intelligent

Fast Foward to after covid we resumed physical class and his physical appearance was not different as an unserious one

But then behind those looks lies a brainy who we never thought would be the one to coach us all extra classes

I could not believe my eyes when I start attending this guy's extra classes because he understands more and he's smart

My judgment was wrong and I must admit it's never right to judge by looks

Because this guy is a good definition

Though his look still looks unserious but then he's just a smart and intelligent one behind those unserious look


Sometimes I'm wrong with the judgment and other times my guts help me make the right decisions with judgment

You don't judge a book by its cover but the cover plays a huge role in telling if a book is worth reading

Sometimes the art on the cover speaks for the book and just tells you such a book is worth reading
The same thing applies to movies

The artwork and movie cover speaks more for the movie

I was trying to see a movie and the artwork
was screaming mid ( not good enough) because of the graphics and how confused the artwork was

immediately I already judged the movie but a trial made me go for it

It was a genre of horror and thriller

Not until I started and the graphics and use of visuals for the horrific scene were mid

And right there I just know this time my judgment was right

Sometimes we judge and end up being wrong and other times our judgement is right
We just need to know when our judgement is wrong and admit