So many people get confused about what to do , and what life is all about
so many people get swayed off their right track all because they have no mind of their own and some keep believing there's a manual to living life judging from other people doing great
With different opinions, people believe right to be wrong and wrong to be right
All these are just results of people having no mind of their own and believing we all are to be in the same direction because we all are living
Truth is we will always be different, have different views, different challenges, and different life
Life is different for every one of us, to every individual we can't always have the same life
Life is wide and deep, life has no manual even for those feeling like they've got the hack it's all just risk and a move they made that worked in their favor
It's okay to be different, it's okay to have a mind of your own, it's okay to stand out and it's okay to do things differently
The important thing is doing things that work for you and you alone unlike jumping on a moving train all because of FOMO(fear of missing out)
A mind of your own helps a lot because it only comes from a place of care and benefits for individual,
it's one thing that comes with a strong opinion and self-empowerment
I wish everyone gets to know this and believe in themselves, maybe people would come out of their shells and do things differently or avoid FOMO, or better still be unique in their ways
And that's why if I ever get a chance to address an audience it's all just going to be a talk about telling them it's okay to be different
Just because it's not working out now does not mean it won't work out, just because a move worked out for a neighbor does not mean it will work for you, just because you are the only one doing it doesn't mean it's invalid or wrong, just because you are standing alone does not mean you are wrong
life is deep and approaching it from a different angle is allowed life is not always what it seems it's how we approach it that determines it
I believe many people just need a mind of their own to stand on their two feet, I believe many people need a mind of their own to unleash the greatest in them.
I believe a mind of our own comes with self-empowerment and I believe it's okay to be different
This is just me trying to let people unleash their greatness and to avoid moving with the crowd,
making people understand you can be different and still be great, and it's okay to do things that works for you
Life will always point differently to each and everyone which makes us prone to approaching it differently
Here is a response to @hivelearner weekly topic week 37 about talk